Baru pulang nonton concertnya Parachute Band
Mrk band dari new zealand...
Gak kerasa gitu.. kira2 satu setengah jam... berdiri terus.. worship the Lord.. eh tau2 udah abis ... It's so nice to stand there, and worship... jadi jemaat.. hehehe and the music is so refreshing... unlike us hehehehe :) kalo main musik di gereja masih amatiran hehehe :)suka salah2 hehehe..

God has put something in my heart to do.... tp masi nunggu confirmation.. soalnya kayaknya kalo dipikir secara ratio I can't, tp ga tau jg.., ya liat aja nanti :)

I really2 have to study nih.. final is coming soon... :(
Bener2 mau get over it soon...

shopping oh shopping...

Waakkss... udah lamaaa banget ga shopping seheboh ini...
For those who really know me.. aku itu ga gitu suka shopping.. kadang males dan kedua suka mikir2 duitnya heehhe... maklum skrg lagi ga ada pemasukan...

Tapii.....tadi shopping beli baju, celana capri, rok, jaket, anting hahaha lengkap semuanya....

Jaket yang aku mau ternyata udah murah.. tp warnanya ga ada yang warna khaki.. (modelnya mirip2 jaketnya jennifer garner yang di 13 going on 30 *tunjuk2 posting-an dibawah*) akhirnya dapet warna item.. bagus sih tp kok modelnya ga gitu keliatan jdnya?? hmm apa mending cari di toko laen ya?

Terus celana caprinya jg... tadi nyobainnya warna khaki.. tp karena pikir2 warna khaki udah pny jd beli warna biru gelapp rada2 item...td dirumah cobain lagi...pikir2 lagi kok bagusan warna khakinya ya? hmm kayanya kalo warna biru gelap kantong2 dan accessorisnya kurang keliatan? wahhh,, tp paling males tuker warna.. ya udah lah item jg ok.. hehehe..

Paling seneng sama roknya hehehe.. warnanya bagus dan modelnya lucu.. jd serasa penari hahaha.. abis rada megar2 gitu terus bawahnya ga rata.. gimana ya jelasinnya hehehe.. pokoknya i'm very satisfied!! hehehe

Antingnya jg udah lama mauuu hehehehe...yg silver panjang2 gitu..
Kalo bajunya.. itu bonus lah.. murah soalnya hehehehe :)
Ga papa lah sekali2 treat diri sendiri hehehe.. asal jgn sering2 kali ya.. bisa bangkrut hehehe...*menghibur diri*

ini foto gaby... lucu yaaaaa.. liat tangannya yang gendut hehehe.. tp dia ga lagi senyum sih.. kalo senyum lebih gemesin lg.. hehehe

nonton lagii kemaren.. 13 going on 30
filmnya ok jg.. yang aku dapet sih ya apa gunanya career kalo itu jadiin kamu orang yang not nice.., kalo itu jadiin kamu away from family, sama missed out a chance to be with someone you love that love you back.

trus i really like baju2 yang dia pake.. sama accessorisnya hehee...girly banget sih banyakan pinky2, trus pake bunga dll, lucu2.. I especially like yang di foto above.. rambutnya lucu.. sama jaketnya jg sukaaa... hehehe..
Jadi pengen belanja hehehe...

***
Soal retret..
Di retret yang aku dapetin sih:
1. Di hidup ini harus punya focus.
2. Harus hindarin things yang ga bisa kita reach out our maximum capacity seperti: kemalesan (tp skrg lagi males nih.. *fight*)
3. Harus belajar liat orang dari sisi baiknya aja.. ga boleh negative.. ga boleh cepet tersinggung..
4. Problem is good. Dengan problem kita bisa lebih deket lagi sama Tuhan dan pas Tuhan help kita solve the problem kita bakalan lebih greatful lagi for HIs love.. dah gitu bisa share pengalaman yang kita bagi.

ngomong2 soal sharing..
beberapa hari yang lalu.. aku ngerebus ayam.. udah nyalain kompor dll.. aku tinggal.. keringin rambut kalo ga salah... eh tau2 lupa.. bisa akhirnya nonton tivi dll.. setelah about 20 minutes kali.. baru inget soal itu ayam..

Amazingly.. kompornya tiba2 bisa kayak rusak gitu.. ga panas sama sekali.. ayamnya masih gitu2 aja.. airnya jg belom panas2.... sampe akhirnya mesti pindah burner.. Padahal kemaren ini masak lagi pake burner yang itu baik2 aja, panas2 aja...

Ini soal kecil sih.. tp ya.. ini salah satu bukti kalo God's been looking out for me.. hehehe... He's looking out for you too!!!

pigi retret

Baru pulang dari retreat... capeeee.... tp blessed :)
Tadinya pasang foto disini tp kok kayanya kegedean.. terus kalo diresize jd ga keliatan tampang orang2nya.. hehehe jd ya ga jadi deh hehehe..
Gemes banget sama Gabyyy.... anaknya orang gereja sini... umurnya 3 taun.. gendut sekalii.. gemesss.....kerjanya makan mulu.. pinter ngomong lagi.. udah gitu senyum2 teruss... gemess...lucuuuu

Shrek 2



I watched Shrek 2 yesterday... It was so funny..The animations are great too! People said it was better than the first one. You guys should see it!
I particularly like Donkey and Puss. Can't believe that Puss' voice is Antonio Banderas'.. hehehe...

I was so amazed on the way marketing works. Yesterday I wanted to buy a small popcorn. Then the girl in the counter asked me if I want to upgrade to regular popcorn for just 50 cents more. "You get twice as much for only 50 cents more.." she said..hahaha.. and I took it greedily... and guess what? I only ate half.., well perhaps a little bit more than half, the bag!! What a waste of 50 cents ahhahaha.. (dikurs-in ke Indo itu Rp.3000 loh dapet bakso semangkok hahaha..) I'm so cheap hehehe.. :)

I watched the movie for CAD8.95 I thought.. wow it's so cheap (btw, the movie tickets in canada are cheaper now)...but then.. I wasted CAD8.32 for popcorn and a drink hehehehe... But it's all worth it... *buat refreshing hehehe*

Anyway.. I didn't get any more weird phone calls.. *YAY*

I'm really annoyedddd.
Two days ago, at 12.30ish in the morning somebody called me. There was no number on my caller ID, and when I picked it up, nobody answered it. I hung up.
I thought it was from my mom or Ely in Indo.. but I asked both of them and confirmed that it wasn't them.

Yesterday, at 12.30ish am too.. i received the same phone call. This time I waited instead of hung up. Silence. He hung up.
Then.. at 2.30am... that annoying person called again. This time he called like 6 times maybe... I answered 2 of them and he/she won't answer. He only pressed the number on the keypad.. the same variation of tone on each of them... but I don't know whether it's a number or a message???In the background it was like he was in the car, or there's a bit of music.. I dunno...

Who might call me?
1. It may be someone from Indo (since the calls were so early in the morning. The person may not know the time difference. No caller ID)But who is itt...??
2. Maybe I am on the top of the phone book's list of somebody's cell phone, since my name starts with B(maybe he doesn't have any friend with names start with A). Sometimes when you don't lock the keypad, the phone could accidentally dialed the first person on the phone book list. (if you have a nokia phone, you'll understand)
3. Somebody found the church booklet, where there's my name and number on it,or pressed a random number and got my number, have nothing to do, decided to "annoy" me..
4. Or.. somebody is trying to send me a message?

Hahaha.. playing detectivess....I hope he doesn't call me again. It's starting to freak me out.

random thoughts

bisa ga ya our life be as exciting as those in the tv's comedy serial..(e.g: friends, will&grace, spin city, becker, etc)
Enak jg ya.. kalo tiap hari bisa ketawa.. hehe.. trus temen2 bisa give you a really harsh comment.. yang kalo didenger itu funny cuman "nancep" jg di hati hehehe.. tp no hard feeling.. abis gitu ya bisa stay friends lagi..

Enak jg kali ya???

Asal jgn sampe as complicated as soap opera... kayak days of our lives.. huhhh aneh banget tuhhh.. semua yang di city itu related.. step mother, step father, step sister.. bla bla bla.. gara2 mrk switch partners terus..

Udah gitu yaa... kenapa ya di soap opera amrik pada suka show off a man's body ya? terutama di days of our lives... kayaknya itu para cowok2 kalo dirumah ga suka pake baju.., katanya mau mandi lah, abis olah raga lah, abis betulin sink dapur lah, ada aja alesannya.. I know that all of them have the nicest body.., bicep, tricep, six-pack stomach, the whole nine yards..cuman ya... lama2 ikhhh kok kesannya sengaja gituh...

Nama Pasaran

Dipikir2 selama ini gua udah mengenal banyak sekali Michael:
1. Michael anaknya om Eddy
2. MIchael alumni CC
3. Michael sodaranya Priscilla
4. Michael adenya ci Yoan
5. Michael Tumiwa
6. Michael Darmawan
7. Michael main drum
8. Michael cowonya Irene (Irene jg lumayan pasaran hehehe)
Ini yang gua personally kenal.. belom lagi Michael Jordan, Michael Angelo, Michael Jackson, toko St. Michael, gereja St. Michael heheh dan Michael2 laennya...

Kalo Irene... ga gitu banyak sih tp lumayan
1. Irene ceweknya Michael hehehe
2. Irene alumni tarki
3. Irene ex-roomateku dulu
4. Irene Liauw
Ini 3 out of 4 ketemu di Seattle hehehe..

Sorry guys..yang namanya Michael dan Irene hhehehe... tak bermaksud hahaha... it's just a fact.. jangan marah yaa.. pweesee.. *muka memelas*

Aku ingin begini, aku ingin begitu
Aku ingin ini itu banyak sekalii...

Things happen for a reason?

Bener ga sih kalo segala sesuatu itu happens for a reason?
Bener ga sih kalo in the future kita bisa thankful for things yang for now look hopeless?

Sometimes gua pengen balik lagi ke masa2 pas di Seattle.. pas udah kerja.. hehehe enak jg.. ga ada peer dan exam lagi, gajian tiap 2 minggu.., tiap weekend ato kadang2 weekdays after work hang out with my girlfriends.., watch movies every friday night, tulis2 email sambil killing time di office, jalan2 ke Disneyland waktu Christmas.... hehehe.. rasanya life is perfect.

Kadang wondering...ngapain ya gua di vancouver? kerja ga bisa.. sekolah jg rada2 bingung.. soalnya gua bukan PR dan rada susah chancesnya untuk dapetin CGA designationnya.. soalnya kan mesti ada work experience yang cukup. Udah gitu.. Canada itu serba ga flexible.. peraturannya, even tax systemnya jg complicated..
Udah gitu.. hmmm... banyak deh things yang I better not say.. hehe..

Enak jg sih disini.. banyak makanan enak, dll..
Cuman.. Seattle feels like home...
Although.. skrg my girlfriends udah tersebar dimana2 sih.. ada yang pulang Indo, ada yang mau pulang Indo, ada yang di Texas, ada yang mau pindah ke Indiana (you know who you are hehe)

Coworkerku bilang gini wkt denger aku mau pindah ke Vancouver..
"awww...things we do for men" becanda sih... tapiii...*sigh* sebel sih dengernya... sebagai penganut rada feminist... why why and why...

Ga ngerti jg why...I guess if things really are happened for a reason, I'll let you know what the reason is in the future.. *cross my finger it'll be soon..*

This was written by an 8-year-old, Danny Dutton of Chula Vista, CA, for his third-grade homework assignment. The assignment was to
explain God. Wonder if any of us could do as well?

EXPLAIN GOD

One of God's main jobs is making people. He makes them to replace
the ones that die, so there will be enough people to take care of
things on earth. He doesn't make grown-ups, just babies. I think
because they are smaller and easier to make. That way He doesn't
have to take up His valuable time teaching them to talk and walk.
He can just leave that to mothers and fathers.

God's second most important job is listening to prayers. An awful
lot of this goes on, since some people, like preachers and things,
pray at times beside bedtime. God doesn't have time to listen to
the radio or TV because of this. God sees everything and hears
everything and is everywhere which keeps Him pretty busy. So you
shouldn't go wasting His time by going over your Mom and Dad's head asking for something they said you couldn't have.

Atheists are people who don't believe in God. I don't think there
are any in Chula Vista. At least there aren't any who come to our
church.

Jesus is God's Son. He used to do all the hard work like walking on water and performing miracles and people finally got tired of Him preaching to them and they crucified Him. But He was good and kind,like His Father and He told His Father that they didn't know what they were doing and to forgive them and God said "O.K."

His Dad (God) appreciated everything that He had done and all His
hard work on earth so He told Him He didn't have to go out on the
road anymore. He could stay in heaven. So He did. And now He helps
His Dad out by listening to prayers and seeing things which are
important for God to take care of and which ones He can take care
of Himself without having to bother God. Like a secretary, only
more important.

You can pray anytime you want and they are sure to help you because they got it worked out so one of them is on duty all the time. You should always go to church on Sunday because it makes God happy, and if there's anybody you want to make happy, it's God. Don't skip church to do something you think will be more fun like going to the beach. This is wrong.. And besides the sun doesn't come out at the beach until noon anyway.

If you don't believe in God, besides being an atheist, you will be
very lonely, because your parents can't go everywhere with you,
like to camp, but God can. It is good to know He's around you when
you're scared in the dark or when you can't swim and you get thrown into real deep water by big kids.

But...you shouldn't just always think of what God can do for you. I figure God put me here and He can take me back anytime He pleases.

And...that's why I believe in God.

Lucu deh.. tadi pulang sekolah (malemmm) lagi pacar2nya roomateku.. seperti biasa yang satu di living room yang satu lagi di kitchen.. di meja makan.. semua lagi pada baca.
Terus aku laper jdnya bikin roti sama nutela..
Terus co yang di kitchen senyum2 sama ceweknya (roomateku)
Terus cenya nanya: what?
B: tampang bingung?
ce: oh ignore him. He's just weird
co: here is Bonnita eating nutella..
B: (baru ngeh). Do you want some?
co: I am fine now.. (ketawa malu)
B: help yourself okay.
co: mmm.. I think I will. That bread is really good actually I like it.. (gua beli butter milk bread.. emang enak sihhh)
ce: he's been eyeing that bread and nutella and I told him don't touch it. It's Bonnita's.

****

Tadi ya lagi nunggu bis tiba2 ada ibu2 cina nyebrang jalan.. trus mulai ngomong bahasa mandarin. Wah gua pikir, tambah satu lagi deh orang yang kira gua orang Cina.. emang tampang gua Cina banget ya.. (dengan rada bete hehehe)
Eh ternyata itu ibu2 kasih ticket busnya.. masih belom expired.
Terus gua bilang thank you..
Terus ibu itu nyebrang jalan lagi...
jadi ibu itu special nyebrang jalan cuman mau kasih gua tiket bis biar gua ga usah bayar lagii... baee yaaa??? hehehe *terharuu*

Persuasion

Gimana sih cara persuade orang?
Kalo gua kerja di bidang marketing bisa bangkrut perusahaannya... Gua paling ga bisa persuade orang... mungkin kalo gua jadi cowok.. gak bakal bisa dapet cewek hahahaha...

Kayak gini deh kemaren itu ada fundraising di gereja buat mother's day. Jadi youthnya bikin parcel gitu buat para suami kasihin ke wifeynya.. Nah gua nawarinnya gini "mm..ko kita ada fundraising mo bikin parcel gitu.. mm mau ga beli buat ci.... (the wife)?"
Trus da husband bilang.. "isinya apa?"
Terus gua bilang "lotion, bingkai foto bla bla bla.."
husband: "berapa harganya?"
Gua bilang:" $30.."
Husband: "ooo.."
Nah kalo dia ga langsung bilang iya.. gua tuh nganggep dia tuh ga mau.. trus anehnya pas ditanya sama anggota youth yang lain.. dia mauuuu... jd gimana yahh.. ????

Gua selalu kalo nawarin barang or ngajakin orang pergi pasti bilang gini.. "mmm kalo ga mau jg ga papa lohh.. aku ga maksa.."
padahal orangnya kalo diajak2in.. dirayu2 dikit jg mauu...
Jd kadang2 orang diajakin pergi tuh tadinya segen.. malu2 gitu apalagi kalo ga gitu kenal.. tp deep inside their heart.. with a little persuasion tuh sebenernya mereka mau jg ikut pergi. Cuman guanya yang ngajakin udah ga enak duluan... jadinya ga persuade.. akhirnya mrk ga ikutan pergi dehh..

Soalnya gua ga suka kalo kesannya maksa gitu.. gua ga suka maksaain kehendak.. soalnya ada orang2 yang annoying kadang2.. udah dibilang ga mau tetep aja dibujuk2... gua ga mau jd orang2 kayak gitu makanya gua berusaha untuk "menangkap" signal penolakan hahahaha...

Mungkin ya harus ada dikit persuasion tp jangan kelewat batas... soalnya orang Indo banyakan don't mean what they say..
Contohnya: dirumah orang... belom makan laperrrr bangettt... trus tuan rumahnya nanya.. "udah makan belom?"
Pasti rata2 orang indo bilang: "o udah kok tadi..." padahal makannya udah 10 jam yang lalu dan perut laperrrrrr hihihi.. tp nolak2 soalnya ga enakkk..
Bener gaa???

Mesti belajar lebih agresif nih...

Cowok vs Cewek

Ngomongin soal beda cowok ama cewek emang selalu menarik menurut gua.. dan kadang bete sendiri soalnya keliatannya jadi cowok lebih enak hehehe.. tp as always...people always want what they don't have... or neighbour's grass looks greener than ours.. :)

Kalo diliat2 si (ga tau bener apa ga)co2 lebih asik2 dalam temenan... asik2 aja gitu.. ga ada tersinggung2an.. ngomong cablak jg ga gampang tersinggung (ada sih bbrp case co yang tersinggungan tp jaranggg...) cuman mrk maybe ga sesetia kawan seperti ce... kalo ce kadang udah beda kota dll jg tetep stay in touch sama galfriendnya..

Kadang jadi cewek bingung jg.. entah kenapa kadang2 hal kecil bisa bikin bete.. (pengaruh hormon di saat2 tertentu hehehe)Kalo dah gitu rasanya gimana ya.. kalo gua sih coba2 buat menahan rasa bete hehehe.. soalnya gua ndiri ga suka kalo ada orang yang cepet bete.. kan males temenan sama orang betean.. ngomong dikit salah ini dikit salah hehehe..(tul ga?) makanya gua jg ga mau jd orang betean .. cuman kadang2 kalo ada reason yang tepat bete boleh lah ya? hehehe

Terus.. cowok itu selalu lebih jago dr cewek di segala hal.. (ini pengamatan doang sih hehe bisa dicekek para feminist hehehe)
Liatin aja.. chef2 terkenal banyakan cowok padahal kan masak itu sebenernya "kerjaannya" cewek.. tp begitu cowok hobi masak rata2 masaknya lebih enak dr cewek hehehe..

Mungkin cewek kebanyakan use emotion ya... jdnya suka ga stabil.. jdnya ga bisa achive much? Tp ya banyak jg cowok yang emosian sih.. gampang marah dll.. tp biasanya sih ada reason tertentu.. kalo ce kadang2 marah tanpa sebab hehhe.. sampe co2 pada bingung.. kalo salah ngomong dikit ajaa langsung dipikirin sampe lama... especially soal looks ya.. for every man out there.. hati2 kalo ngomong tentang women's physical looks hihihiKalo cowo rasanya lebih gampang forgive and let go...

Tp yahhh cewek sih keliatanya lebih "kuat" dr cowok.. walopun keliatannya "lemah" tp sebenernya semua cowok ga bisa idup tanpa cewek.. Katanya behind every great man there must be a woman behind it. Kayak para mothers... mrk do everything, raise children, clean the house, cook, please the husband hehehe..

Anyway.. for every mom out there, Happy Mother's Day!!

Sekilas info (ciehhhh)

Ga tau kalo it sounds pathetic... yang pastiiii... gak bisa idup tanpa komputer dan internet huhuhuhu.... rasanya ada yang kuranggggg...
Kemaren itu komp kena virus kayanya.. jdnya bisa icq tp ga bisa ngebrowse.. aneh jggg... akhirnya mesti di reformat...
untung skrg dah jalan hehehe....

Trus gerejaku punya gedung baruuu.. hehehe akhirnya... setelah sekian lama menyewa hehehe... trus udah bagus.. didecor gitu.. pdhal pas pertama kali liat kesannya tuaaa ... :) Trus tadi lucu gitu.. satu mobil sedan kecil isinya berenam... aku nyetir yang lainnya 5 cowok berbadan besar hehehe... sampe pada takut ketangkep polisi gituh hehehe...

Apalagi yahhh.... oh ya me pass kelas2 session lalu dengan angka yang menyenangkan hehehe...

Yah segitu dulu kaliii... :) Thank u ya buat iren yang setia membaca blog sayah hehehe.. dan para pembaca laenn... hehehe

Pria or Cowo

P:Tahu jelas lima tahun lagi ia mau jadi apa
C:Tidak jelas lima menit lagi ia mau berbuat apa

P: Jago membuat wanita merasa tenang
C: Jago membuat cewek tertawa
---> kalo gini aku mau pria dan mau cowo hehe

P: Bacaannya John Grisham, mainannya golf, tontonannya CNN
C: Bacaannya Harry Potter, mainannya bilyar, tontonannya MTV

P: Sebelum umur 30 sudah banyak uang
C: Sebelum umur 30 sudah banyak dosa
---> hhuahuahauhaua lucuuuu...

P: Seimbang antara penghasilan dan pemasukan
C: Seimbang antara hutang dan pembayaran minimum

P: Mendukung emansipasi wanita, tapi tetap membukakan pintu, membayar bon makan malam dan menyupiri
C: Mendukung emansipasi wanita dengan membiarkan wanita buka pintu sendiri, bayar bon makan malam
sekaligus menyupiri
---> ini nyebelinn... hehehe

P: Punya akuntan, penjahit dan dokter langganan
C: Punya salon, kafe dan bengkel langganan

P: Takut menjadi seperti ayah mereka!
C: Takut menjadi seorang pria!

P: Meminta Anda nimbrung ngobrol kalau Mamanya menelepon
C: Pura-pura Anda tidak bersamanya jika Mamanya menelepon

P: Putus dengan pasangannya sambil berjabatan tangan dan mengakui sulitnya menjembatani perbedaan antar mereka berdua, diiringi ucapan,"Semoga kita tetap bisa bekerja sama dalam menangani proyek ABC."
C: Putus dengan pasangannya sambil kabur dari rumah, merokok berbatang-batang, plus ucapan, "Jangan undang aku ke pernikahanmu nanti!"

P: Punya babies
C: Punya babes
---> this is hillarious.. hehehe...

Jaman sekarang susah cari pria sejati hehehe :( katanya boys will be boys.. hehehe

My great grandmother

My great grandmother died last week at the age of 107 years old.
She lived to see her fifth generation.
I'm the 4th generation and my cousin already has kid.
Last Oct I met her. She can still recognize her grandson, remember about my studying abroad, count money hehehe. And she can still eat lumpia!!!
May she rest in peace.

Aku pny dua roomate.. they're sisters..orang CBC..
trus kan dua2nya pny boyfriend...
Yang satu pacaran di sofa.. sambil nonton tivi.. or video.. or ya ngobrol2 aja..di sofa.. hehe
Yang satu lagi seringnya ngobrol di dapur.. di meja makan..
Lucu akur gitu.. kadang2 friday night.. mrk nonton video berempat...
Cuman ya.. me gigit jari hehehe.. kalo dah banyak yg dateng gitu rada malu.. jd banyakan di kamar doang..
Dan kalo yang satu lagi pacaran di dapur.. hiksss.. mesti menahan laper.. hehee abis ga enak bgt orang lagi pacaran digangguin me yang kelaperan hehehe...
*Hungry.. hungry... hungry....*

So tired...
Kurang tidur.. kemaren only sleep like 2.5 hours maybe... terus tadi slept at 6 sekarang bangun jam 11pm... gimana nih... bisa ga ya tidur lagi sampe pagi..
Had a really really weird dream...
*sigh*

Saling Tuding

Kenapa ya manusia itu suka menyalahkan orang lain?
Mungkin udah bawaan dari Adam sih.. dosa nyalahin Hawa.. hehehe.. jadi semuanya ikutan deh..
Kalo suami nyeleweng nyalahin istrinya ga dandan, marah2 terus, cerewet....
Kalo miskin, istri nyalahin suami ga becus cari duit...
Kalo anak gak bisa beli ini itu.. nyalahin orang tuanya.. pelit lah.. kenapa ortunya miskin lah...
Kalo lagi ga ada yang bisa disalahin lagi.. nyalahin Tuhan.. kenapa Tuhan jahat.. ciptain dunia yang penuh masalah..
Hayoo... bingung kan.. yang jadinya ga salah jadi disalah2in.. ga pernah mau introspeksi..tp malah cari someone or something buat dijadiin sasaran tudingan..

Pernah dulu ada cowok temennya ex roomate gua, jd ceritanya kita mau pergi kemana gitu.. *lupa*.. terus dia nungguin kita cewe2 yang lama siap2nya.. hehe.. terus gara2 itu dia dimarahin sama kakaknya... karena telat dll... Tp dia bukannya nyalahin kita cewe2 pembuat dia telat, malah cengar cengir aja bilang sorry...
Tu anak emang one in a million.. baek banget... Ga gitu kenal sih sama dia.. tp kejadian itu bikin gua "tergugah" (ceile) buat ga nyalahin orang lagi.. dan introspeksi..

Cuman ya kalo kejadian kayak dia gitu.. dia itu berhak lah buat nyalahin para cewek.. tapi dia ga mau..
Maybe.. yang bener.. jangan membela diri lah.. nanti Tuhan yang bela..
Soalnya Tuhan jg bisa nyalahin kita2 orang berdosa yang buat Dia mesti mati disalib... tapi Dia ga exercise that right... He chose to die for us.. because He loves us...udah gitu Dia dibela.. dibangkitkan dari orang mati..

Pointnya.. ya kalo bisa jangan nyalahin orang lain, introspeksi diri dulu siapa tau kita yang salah, terus kalo emang bukan salah kita.. ya biarin aja.. nanti Tuhan yang bela.. hehehe teorinya sih gampang.. tp ngelaksanainnya susah yaaaa....